Accept the pain and the emptiness without her. It’s where your new self grows.

For a man, breakups can be soul-crushing. The silence can be deafening. The empty space where she used to be feels like a void, threatening to swallow you whole. You don’t know who you are any longer. Who are you without her?

But here’s an important perspective that I want you to see: That empty space isn’t as hollow as you think. It’s fertile ground for your rebirth and growth as a man.

All that energy you used to pour into the relationship? It’s yours now. Yes, there were great times, but there were also bad ones. You now get to start something new. New commitments to yourself.

All those compromises you made? You don’t have to make them anymore. Now, you are full of potential to find something new in your life. To commit to a new identity, to learn how you want to live your life without her. To start something new that’ll bring you more happiness.

Use your pain, and the time alone to rediscover old passions and explore new ones. Always wanted to learn guitar? Now’s your chance. Been putting off that career move? The time is now. Never could go to the gym because your girlfriend wanted couple time? Now you can establish those new goals and habits.

Every day is an opportunity to sculpt yourself into the man you want to be.

The empty space is temporary. Become an attractive man. Do what you want with your life. Use the time to grow. This time for yourself is yours to keep. Nobody can take it away from you. Even if you feel weak, what you create now will be yours to be proud of.

Go on your personal journey of self-discovery. Become attractive. And in time, you will find love again.