Be A Mysterious Man: How To Get Women To Approach You First
Are you afraid to approach a woman? Maybe you don’t know how to talk to girls?
I know exactly how you feel because I’ve been there. I used to be that shy guy who couldn’t make eye contact with a girl and flirting with girls seemed impossible. I wasn’t masculine enough yet and I lacked insights on how to be an alpha male with women.
I don’t know if you’re anything like me back then, but I really struggled with talking to women. I didn’t know how to seem interesting, and when I tried to start a conversation with a girl, I would usually seem too insecure and turn them off quickly.
But, there is a simple solution to these kinds of problems!
I still remember, back in those days, I wished that girls would make it easier for me. But as I became just a tiny bit more confident and started to understand girls better, I realized that it’s very easy to get a woman to do half of the job for you. There are simple tricks to make it easier to approach girls!
You may not know it yet, but most women want men to approach them — assuming you approach the right one who likes you. But at the same time, if you manage to flirt with a woman from afar, and pique her interest, it will be much easier for you to meet in the middle where you don’t have to try a “cold approach“.
I have learned that as an introverted man, who doesn’t love flirting so much, it’s much more fun to approach a woman when you already know that she is attracted to you. So the best aproach to get a woman to “approach” you, is to become the man that woman are naturally drawn to by becoming more mysterious.
From Invisible to Irresistible: How I Became A Mysteriously Attractive Man And How You Can As Well
I started from a place of uncertainty and insecurity. Growing up without strong male role models, I never learned how to assert myself or how to display confident masculinity. I was a “nice guy” — passive, socially awkward, and invisible to women.
Approaching women was the only choice for me. Women didn’t even know I existed, but when I approached them, it always failed!
Dating was a nightmare. I stumbled through my late teens and early twenties, clueless about how to attract women or maintain a healthy relationship. I didn’t know how to be interesting to a girl and keep her interested, whether it was during the early stages of dating, or when we were in a relationship.
Somehow, women always wanted to be with other men — it felt as if they wanted to be with anybody but me.
But everything changed when I hit rock bottom at 27. After one more not-so-great relationship, I decided to finally become the attractive man that I always wanted to be. I wanted to be as confident as the most masculine men that I could think of.
I dove deep into the psychology of attraction, studying scientific papers, observing successful men, and I experimented with many different approaches. I literally made lunch breaks at work my “attraction practice” times. My goal was clear: To transform into the man that can have the most beautiful girlfriend.
The results were astounding. Within a year, I went from being invisible to women to having more interested in me than I ever believed possible. Girls in my office building would ask me out, random women on the streets even started talking to me when we flirted via eye contact. It was a wild experience
The most surprising thing I discovered going from zero dating skills, to being the man that women focus on: The key to my transformation wasn’t about becoming louder or highly aggressive — this is what I thought an alpha male is like. Instead, I learned that being a confident alpha male who gets girls was all about cultivating an aura of mystery that women found irresistible.
I learned that women are naturally drawn to men who intrigue them, who leave them wanting to know more. As a man, you can develop yourself, become more masculine and mysterious with simple behavior and mindset changes, and completely change your masculine image in less than a few months!
By developing certain qualities and behaviors, I found I could pique women’s interest without saying a word, making them eager to approach me or at least make it extremely easy to approach them — and after some time, approaching women no longer was difficult, and it didn’t matter to me anylonger who made the first move.
Through my journey, I uncovered four key secrets about why women are attracted to mysterious men, and how any man can cultivate this attractive quality. These insights changed my life, and I’m confident they can change yours too. So first, let me share 4 reasons why women like mystery and how to be mysterious and attractive as a man:
4 Female Attraction Secrets: Why Women Love Mysterious Men
Women Are Drawn To Active Men Who Cultivate An Aura Of Intrigue Through Masculine Pursuits
Women are naturally intrigued by men who have more to them than meets the eye. They’re attracted to the idea of uncovering layers of an interesting personality. Physical attractiveness is only the first layer to unwrap. This is why cultivating an aura of intrigue through masculine pursuits is so effective. Women love a man who has clear goals and pursues them actively.
Whether you have hobbies that showcase your adventurous spirit and confidence, such as surfing to brave the waves with agility, or climbing massive walls during rock climbing to show your strength — women love a man who actively takes risks.
Women are naturally attracted to men who engage in exciting, masculine pursuits that showcase their adventurous spirit and confidence. And of course, this goes even beyond hobbies, such as being a risk taker in your career and business opportunities.
The great news is that finding the confidence to step out of your comfort zone, with women, and in life, is possible for any man. Therefore, creating this aura of intrigue is not as impossible as you may think. With the right mindset and a positive outlook that you can achieve incredible results, you will become a highly attractive man who can win the heart of almost any woman.
Types Of Men Women Can’t Resist: Women Love Men Who Master Stoic Charisma
Women love men who are stoic but all the while, filled with good vibes. They’re drawn to those men who don’t seek validation from women or anyone else, and are only focused to bring positive energy to any gathering. A man who thrives in social situations with ease and confidence, without feeling desperate to get a woman’s attention, is incredibly attractive to women.
I call this stoic charisma. You can cultivate stoic charisma by developing a strong sense of purpose, self-reliance, and a deeply rooted desire to please yourself, rather than women. In social settings, men should focus on creating valuable connections, being curious about having great conversations and learning from others, rather than seeking female attention or validation.
Developing this type of stoic charisma might sound challenging when you are waiting for your turn to find a great girlfriend, but it’s possible with a few simple mindset shifts and an alpha male behavior pattern when you’re out and about. Any man can learn to focus on his own fun, enjoyment and purposeful encounters when participating in social settings, like a fun event or a visit to a relaxed bar.
Of course, when a woman a woman shows interest, a mysterious alpha male will respond with confidence, charm and he is always ready to tell a great story. But he never rushes to gain all her approval right away. This balanced approach creates an irresistible mix of accessibility and mystery. Women want to talk to this type of man who’s first and foremost showing up for himself.
Women Want To Talk To Men Who Master The Silent Body Language Of Attraction
Non-verbal communication is a powerful tool in attraction that women have been using for most of their adult lives — men would be wise to pay attention and make the most out of it! Women are often more attuned to body language than men, and they find it intensely attractive when a man notices their choosing signals. If a man can convey interest and confidence when he notices that a woman is paying attention to him, this is already half the work needed to start a conversation with a woman.
Oten, all it takes to get a woman to want to talk to you is using eye contact effectively. When you spot a woman you’re interested in, first position yourself appropriately for her to notice you, and before doing anything, you first have to gauge if she is even attracted to you. If she is, you will notice easily while holding eye contact for a moment longer than you usually would when looking at a stranger.
This is essentially flirting from afar, which any man can practice no matter where he goes. You can learn to flirt with women without saying a word, whether you’re on your way to work, in a train, or across a woman in a room, like in a bar. When a woman is into you and you reciprocate her attraction signs with your own show of attraction, women often go crazy. This type of man, who’s not afraid to signal that he wants a girl, creates anticipation. Women feel pulled closer to a mysterious man who plays little cat and mouse games from afar.
The power of non-verbal communication in attraction is immense, and mastering it is easier than you might expect. I used to think that flirting with women without saying a word is difficult, but with just a few key adjustments to your body language and how you talk to people in a bar, can dramatically increase your mysterious allure.
Women Want To Date Men Who Are Liked By Men, And Wanted By Other Women
Women are naturally drawn to men who have earned respect and admiration from others. A man with status and strong social connections is seen as valuable and intriguing, making women curious about what sets him apart. If you want to be a mysterious man who is wanted by women, all you need to do is make a woman wonder why you are liked by others.
For this, you don’t even have to be a flirting Casanova who knows how to seduce every woman. All you need to do is be a man who is excellent at one or two things in life. Focus on becoming excellent in your chosen field, whether it’s your career, a creative pursuit, or a sport. Take on leadership roles in your community or industry by organizing events, leading projects, or mentoring others. Engage in light public speaking gigs and become the kind of man who inspires others to do better in their own lives or careers.
Proving to women that you’re worthy of their attention has nothing to do with proving yourself to a woman. When out, be equally friendly and engaging with everyone, not just attractive women. For women to notice, all you need is a large circle of friends. This combination of status, social proof, and approachability creates an irresistible allure that will naturally draw women to you, curious to discover what makes you so well-regarded.
Becoming a man of status might sound like mission impossible, but it’s not that difficult. It’s about making a series of small, consistent choices in your daily life, and small adjustments in your behaviors, the way how you communicate, and about the positive energy that you embody. You don’t need to be a celebrity or a millionaire to create the kind of social proof that women find irresistible.
Masculine Mystique — Discover What Makes A Man Mysterious And Sexy
I used to believe it was impossible for me to become as attractive and confident as the men I’d see at the gym, clubs, or parties. I always felt like the odd one out, the guy women overlooked. But through my journey, I discovered a powerful truth: every man can become magnetically attractive to women.
Being mysterious as a man is not rocket science! And the secret lies not in pickup lines or manipulation tactics, it’s about fundamental principles and mindset shifts that teach you to see yourself as attractive, and in turn, women will feel the same way about you.
Even today, I’m still introverted. But even if you’re the quiet kind of guy, you can embody a quiet confidence and a sense of intrigue that draws women in and makes them want to know you more. You can be the man who doesn’t need to chase women because they are drawn to you!
The power of mysterious attraction is that it works for every man, regardless of your starting point. Whether you’re shy, introverted, or feel invisible to women right now, you can learn to project an air of intrigue that women find irresistible.
None of this is about trying to put up a facade that’ll crumble easily once women start talking to you. Instead, I want to help you to become so confident as a man, that you automatically become more mysterious for a woman!
All beginnings are hard. But Rome wasn’t built in one day. I’m sure you are still intimidated by the idea of talking to women and making them like you. But I know you want to get a beautiful girlfriend, who’s going to be more amazing than you ever thought possible. This is why I wrote my book, “Book Title,” to help you become an attractive man and attract women by developing your own mysterious masculinity.
In This Dating Book For Men, I share:
- How to develop unshakeable masculine confidence that attracts women naturally without even approaching them
- The secrets that separate average men from the highly attractive men that women go crazy for
- Simple mindset shifts that instantly make you seem more mysterious and attractive as a man
- Easy-to-practice methods and mindsets for non-verbal flirting that women can’t resist — and sometimes women will even approach you!
- How to be the guy in a room that every woman wants to talk to — the art of building up social proof and how to make a girl wonder about you so much that she wants to talk to you
- The psychological principles that make women notice a man and how to leverage these confidence principles
- How to learn to talk to women in a bar without freaking out or overthinking how to make your approach
- The secrets to effective and fun communication that will make women eager to chase you and go on dates with you
- The art of creating sexual tension and chemistry that makes women crave your attention
- How to build a fulfilling and purposeful life that attracts beautiful women
- Strategies for maintaining a healthy, passionate relationship once you’ve found the right woman
Imagine walking into a room and immediately getting results with women, as they notice you, their curiosity piqued by your mysterious aura. Discover the secrets to becoming the man of intrigue — the one whose presence alone captivates women’s attention.
You can be the man who automatically gets women to chase him simply by the way that you carry yourself — internally with your mindset, and externally through your looks.
I’ll help you master the art of subtle allure, becoming the man who rarely gets rejected rejection because women are drawn to your mysterious charm. Learn to create an aura of fascination that makes you stand out in a male crowd, compelling women to initiate conversations with you.
You have the power to become the mysterious, attractive man you’ve always wanted to be. Get your copy of “Book Title“ today and become a mysterious man who attracts women with his mere presence.
